First, if fear is the problem, you need to learn of confront fear and intimidation. Many can’t get in the game until they get past this issue. We are all hard-wired to feel fear over new beginnings, especially in the attractive relationship arena.
You must learn to be comfortable around women. The more successful you are the more comfortable you’ll be around them. To get comfortable with them you have to spend time with them and you can do that when you have no ulterior motive. After you feel comfortable and not nervous around them, you have a chance at talking to an attractive stranger without making her nervous or displaying other unattractive behavior.
So how do you treat the response’s you get from the new attractive woman you just met? First, she doesn’t really know you or you, for that matter, you don’t know her. Treat everything she says as sound bites that she uses with every other guy to filter out the crap that comes her way. Really hot women get dealt a lot of crap.
Women will balk if you go too far in an initial encounter. If you just met her settle for just her telephone number and/or email. If you get too forward by telling her she’s the most attractive girl you ever met and you want to take her out she’ll retreat.
If you’re talking on the phone, just arrange for a place to meet for coffee. Don’t rush and go beyond the next step or you get instant resistance.