Perhaps the most important life choice you make will be the partner you choose. You’ll likely want the most attractive, the best character and disposition to live with and wake up to. In order to find your attractive best mate you’ll need to play a top-notch game to maximize your choices. You need high self-esteem so you can believe you deserve a 9 or 10 rated female.

If you suffer from low-self esteem you’ll feel you don’t deserve the best and not try for the exceptional, and if you’re game is not up to par, you’ll have difficulty even with the 7’s.

The game is like a computer game. There are 3 major divisions.

1. Attraction and Open – working on commonalties and merging techniques establishing comfort and trust.
2. Creating a Comfort Zone – emotional control of yourself. Slow play or fast play.
3. Bonding and Relationship – when a love relationship fails it will be the worst pain you’ve ever felt. The higher the joy you experience with that person, the deeper the pain you’ll suffer. You are opening yourself up to some intense pain … but it will be worth it.
4. Handling Crashes


* where you flash "the smile" and have demonstrated higher value without bragging.
* elicit attraction and indicators of interest
* make her feel like you’re not attracted to her but she is engaged in considering herself and you as a growing possible potential.

If you get shot down on #1, the quicker you get back into the game without the emotional baggage of rejection effecting you, the sooner you can start on the next round.

To get to know someone you want to ask open-ended questions and engage in a real conversation. Listen to her answers to learn and know what she is thinking about so you can form an idea about her personality. Is she a keeper, a friend or is it time to cut out and turn up a new leaf?