Hone your conversation so it’s not beginner clunky or too smooth slick. The TV character Mystery uses this conversation starter using a negative: "Why am I drawn to you? You need to rationalize it to me." She’ll say something then you say: "Beauty is commonplace in (whatever town you’re in). You know what’s very rare" She’ll say something. Then mystery says: " 3 things: Is great energy, great personality and a great outlook." You got 2 out of 3."

I’m sure every one has heard it by now but using any variation gets her wheels turning. When you stir her emotions you’ll get her wondering what is next. It is a fun unpredictable fun ride that girls particularly enjoy. America wants to be entertained.

Women make decisions very quickly if you are acceptable to them as a potential partner or just a friend. So you don’t want to come off extra nice and you want to be a little more confident than you should be.