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December 21, 2007

Dealing With Breakups

An observant man, John Young says, "A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. A wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid that mistake altogether."

Not everyone gains useful knowledge from the experience. Most explain away their failure, unwilling to stare into
the light and see that their sacred cow was just a cow.

Women leave for two reasons. There’s a breech from an intruder and/or you did not meet their expectations. And
every day that goes by where you do nothing you're leaving the barn door wide open for someone else to walk into her life.

If you do the wrong things the chasm will stay the same or deepen.

A woman’s expectations of how you will behave are formed during the early dating process. One reason why women leave is simply that their expectations were not met. The man stopped performing up to expectation and they are dismayed by the results.

As a man you have to understand her expectations of how she is going to have in a relationship and continue to create behaviorally those positive feelings in her. In other words, keep doing what you originally did to win her over in the first place. Keep creating that attraction that met her expectation in the first place.

You blew it with your girl and she’s seeing someone else. Lean back and take your time.   Never, never tell her you’ll do anything to get her back. Never come off like a weakling.

You'll have to regain your self-composure, self-respect and your ability to feel good about life again after a breech.

Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today in your thinking. Don't reveal your true feelings to her. Keep them hidden.

Most breaches in a relationship occurred because one of the following building blocks was missing: mutual respect, valuing each other and caring for each other.

Without these fundamental building blocks relationships become risky. "A whole stack of memories never equal one little hope." - Charles M. Schulz, cartoonist

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